- Unexplained discontent with your spouse
- Feelings of being trapped in your marriage
- An overwhelming sense that your needs are not being met
- A desire to be away from your spouse
- A reluctance to spend time at home
- Fantasies about being married to someone else
- Comparing your marriage to other marriages
- Attraction to someone of the opposite sex
- A constant preoccupation with someone else
- An unhealthy attachment to a coworker, friend or acquaintance of the opposite sex
The above warning signs come from this article. Yep, Allie had all of those. Instead of coming to me and conversing, she had an affair. If your wife is in a place like this, do something. It won’t end well.